Assistance and Benefits for Veteran Single Mothers in New Jersey

Last Updated on November 19, 2025 by Rachel

Last updated: September 2025

This guide focuses on veteran‑only programs, benefits, and grants in New Jersey. It skips general programs open to everyone. You’ll find direct contacts, timelines, common mistakes, and backup plans. Use the links inside each paragraph to jump straight to forms, hotlines, and offices.

If You Only Do 3 Things — Emergency Actions to Take

Call the National Call Center for Homeless Veterans at 1-877-424-3838 and ask for a same‑day warm handoff to a local Supportive Services for Veteran Families team for rent, utility, or motel help; tell them you’re a single mom and ask for “rapid resolution” or “prevention” support. Use the hotline or live chat from VA Homeless Programs (HUD‑VASH/SSVF) and keep the call open until you have a contact name; save the backup number for VA New Jersey Health Care. (va.gov)
Contact a New Jersey Veterans Service Officer (VSO) at 1-844-671-1019 and ask for urgent claims triage and housing/utility advocacy; request help filing for service‑connected compensation or survivor benefits today. Use the county/state directories at DMAVA Veterans Service Offices and County‑Operated VSOs. (nj.gov)
Call the Women Veterans Call Center at 1-855-829-6636 and ask to be connected to the VA New Jersey Women Veterans Program Manager or a Maternity Care Coordinator for same‑day support (prenatal, postpartum, MST care, IPV safety planning). Use Women Veterans Call Center and Women Veteran Care in NJ. (womenshealth.va.gov)

Quick Help Box — Keep These 5 Contacts Handy

SSVF hotlines (housing, utilities, deposits): Community Hope (statewide) 1-855-483-8466, Veterans Multi‑Service Center (South NJ) 856-293-7321, VOA Delaware Valley 856-854-4660; ask for “SSVF intake.” (communityhope-nj.org)
NJ VA medical centers (women’s health and social work): East Orange VA 973-676-1000 and Lyons VA 908-647-0180; ask for Women’s Health or Social Work. (va.gov)
Transitional housing run by New Jersey: Veterans Haven North (Glen Gardner) 877-648-0091 and Veterans Haven South (Winslow) 888-849-7188; ask for admissions. (nj.gov)
Legal help for veterans (civil matters like eviction, debt, divorce): Volunteer Lawyers for Justice — Veterans Legal Program 973-645-1955 and VA NJ events listing with VLJ clinics for enrollment details. (vljnj.org)
Peer and crisis support: Vet Center Call Center 1-877-927-8387 and Veterans Crisis Line 988 (press 1); ask for women‑veteran trained counselors. (mentalhealth.va.gov)

Who This Is For

This guide is written for veteran single mothers in New Jersey, including women who served, surviving spouses, and caregivers parenting alone; you’ll see veteran‑specific programs like SSVF, HUD‑VASH, and state benefits from NJDMAVA so you can act fast and avoid dead ends. (va.gov)

Housing First — Getting and Keeping a Roof Over Your Family

Start here; housing is the foundation for every other benefit. SSVF can stop an eviction, cover a security deposit, and pay for utilities or moving costs, while HUD‑VASH provides rental vouchers plus a VA case manager, and Veterans Haven offers transitional beds for women veterans. Use SSVF provider intake, the HUD‑VASH overview, and Veterans Haven North/South to apply today. (communityhope-nj.org)

Housing Help at a Glance

Program	Who Qualifies	What You Get	Typical Timeline	Where to Apply
SSVF (Supportive Services for Veteran Families)	Low‑income veteran households at risk or literally homeless	Case management, deposits, rent/utility arrears, child‑care, transport; up to $1,000 move‑in supplement	Triage in 24–72 hours; faster for families with children	Community Hope SSVF, VMC SSVF (South NJ) (federalregister.gov)
HUD‑VASH	Homeless veterans needing long‑term rental subsidy	Housing Choice Voucher + VA case manager	Voucher waits vary; ask to “bridge” with SSVF	HUD‑VASH info, VA NJ Homeless contacts (va.gov)
Veterans Haven (North/South)	NJ veterans seeking structured transitional housing	Safe housing, treatment, employment support	Intake often within days if bed available	Veterans Haven North, Veterans Haven South (nj.gov)

Eligibility rules: SSVF needs at least one day of active duty service (other than dishonorable) and low income; HUD‑VASH requires VA homelessness verification; Veterans Haven is open to NJ veterans by intake. Confirm county coverage and document list when you call. Use VA SSVF guidance and VA Homeless Programs to verify. (federalregister.gov)

How to apply: Call SSVF first to prevent eviction; ask for “Temporary Financial Assistance” for deposits, rent, utilities, moving, and transport; if literally homeless, request “rapid re‑housing.” Have your DD‑214, income, lease/notice, and child custody proof ready. Use Community Hope intake and VMC South Jersey location to start. (communityhope-nj.org)

Expected wait time: SSVF triage can be same day to 3 business days; HUD‑VASH vouchers depend on local supply; Veterans Haven admissions vary week to week. Ask for motel vouchers only as a bridge and document each contact. Check VA NJ Homeless Program numbers and NJDMAVA VSOs if you need escalation. (va.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Call 1‑877‑424‑3838 again, request a warm transfer to a different SSVF grantee, and ask your VA social worker to place you on the HUD‑VASH list while SSVF pays short‑term costs; bring in GI Go Fund for landlord advocacy and job placement during housing search. (va.gov)

How to Stop a Utility Shutoff in New Jersey Today (Veteran‑Specific Steps)

SSVF can pay past‑due utilities or deposits directly to the utility company; ask for “utility‑fee payment assistance” and “general housing stability” if you need emergency supplies or transport. Use SSVF rules (TFA allowable) and call Community Hope SSVF first thing in the morning. (federalregister.gov)

For one‑time help when SSVF can’t move fast enough, apply to veteran‑only grant programs that pay creditors directly, like VFW Unmet Needs (up to $2, 500) an d * [T h e A m er i c an L e g i o n T e m p or a ry F inan c ia l A ss i s t an ce] (h ttp s : // www . l e g i o n . or g / g e t - in v o l v e d / co mm u ni t y - p ro g r am s / t e m p or a ry - f inan c ia l - a ss i s t an ce / ab o u t) * (u pt o$ 2,500 for minor children in the home). These programs often fund utility shutoff prevention; upload the shutoff notice with your application. (vfw.org)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your VA social worker to document a health risk from shutoff and send an urgent letter to SSVF; if you’re a disabled veteran, show your VA decision letter to your case worker to prioritize your case; re‑apply to VFW Unmet Needs and call a DMAVA VSO for a supporting letter. (vfw.org)

Emergency Cash and Essentials — Veteran‑Only Grants

Use these when a small, fast grant keeps your home stable; keep receipts and include your children’s documents.

VFW Unmet Needs: Grant up to $2,500 paid to creditors (rent, utilities, car) for hardships tied to service or transition; check current criteria and submit bills. See VFW Financial Grants and program details at the VFW Foundation. (vfw.org)
American Legion TFA: One‑time grant up to $2, 500 f or min orc hi l d re n o f a L e g i o nm e mb eror a c t i v e ‑ d u t y f ami l y (T i tl e 10); m u s t a ppl y t h ro ug ha l oc a lp os t . St a r tw i t h * [L e g i o n TF A (A b o u t)] (h ttp s : // www . l e g i o n . or g / g e t - in v o l v e d / co mm u ni t y - p ro g r am s / t e m p or a ry - f inan c ia l - a ss i s t an ce / ab o u t) * an d co n f i r m o l d er p a g es t ha t s t i lll i s t$ 1,500 are outdated; call to verify the current cap. (legion.org)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your GI Go Fund case manager to review other veteran‑specific relief funds and re‑submit with stronger documentation; copy your DMAVA VSO on appeals. (gigo.org)

Women’s Health, Pregnancy, and Postpartum Care Through VA New Jersey

You can get full prenatal care, labor and delivery, postpartum care, lactation supplies, and newborn care on the date of birth plus 7 days, coordinated by a VA Maternity Care Coordinator; VA also expanded maternity care coordination to 12 months postpartum. Call VA Women Veterans Call Center and ask your clinic to connect you to the local Maternity Care Coordinator. See VA Maternity Care and the expansion notice on VA News. (womenshealth.va.gov)

At VA New Jersey, Women’s Health covers primary care, OB/GYN, contraception, infertility evaluation, mammograms (via community partners), and mental health; contact Women’s Health at East Orange VA or Lyons VA and ask for the Women Veterans Program Manager. Use Women Veteran Care in NJ for names and email contacts. (va.gov)

If you experienced military sexual trauma (MST), VA provides free MST‑related care (no documentation or VA rating required), plus confidential counseling at Vet Centers; call 1‑877‑927‑8387, ask for a woman counselor, or contact the MST Coordinator at VA NJ. Read VA MST Care and VA NJ’s MST/IPV program contacts. (va.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Call the Women Veterans Call Center again and request escalation to the facility Patient Advocate; ask your DMAVA VSO to email the clinic chief if scheduling stalls. (womenshealth.va.gov)

Reality Check — Child Care During VA Appointments

VA is building the Veterans Child Care Assistance Program (VCAP) to cover child‑care during VA medical visits; it’s not yet universal in 2025, so ask your facility if VCAP is active and whether reimbursement is offered. Review Federal Register notice on VCAP and ask your clinic social worker about local pilots. Until then, use Women Veterans Call Center to problem‑solve missed care due to child care gaps. (govinfo.gov)

Disability Compensation, PACT Act Presumptives, and Survivor DIC

Apply for VA disability compensation as soon as possible; 2025 rates (effective 12/01/2024) include increases for dependents, which matter if you have children. Use VA Disability Rates (current) and file with a DMAVA VSO to avoid errors. (va.gov)

The PACT Act adds over 20 presumptive conditions for burn pit and other toxic exposures and expands enrollment for exposed veterans; if you served in listed locations or operations, you may now enroll in VA care and file without proving nexus. Check PACT Act benefits and ask the VSO to mark your claim “PACT Act presumptive” when eligible. (va.gov)

If you’re a surviving spouse, Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) base rates for 2025 are $1,653.07 monthly with added amounts for Aid and Attendance and children; confirm your category before filing. Use Current DIC spouse/child rates and see the COLA notice at Federal Register (Apr 29, 2025). (va.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: If your claim stalls, request a VA accredited rep through DMAVA VSOs and use supplemental claims with new evidence; for complex survivor cases, ask VLJ (Veterans Legal Program) to help with benefits‑adjacent civil issues. (nj.gov)

Save on Property Taxes — Veteran‑Only in New Jersey

New Jersey offers a $250 ann u a l V e t er an P ro p er t y T a x De d u c t i o n f or h o n or ab l y d i sc ha r g e d v e t er an s (n o w a r t im ere q u i re m e n t) an d a 100$ 250 Deduction](https://www.nj.gov/treasury/taxation/lpt/lpt-veterans.shtml)* and 100% Disabled Veteran Exemption. (nj.gov)

Eligibility is verified as of October 1 of the pretax year for the $250 deduction, and the disabled exemption requires a VA letter showing 100% permanent and total; appeals go to the County Board of Taxation (special Jan 15 date for Burlington, Gloucester, Monmouth). Use Veteran Deduction page and call 609‑292‑7974 for questions. (nj.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your DMAVA VSO to certify your status and walk your packet to the assessor; if denied, file appeal Form A‑1 by the deadline listed on Taxation’s page and attach your VA rating letter. (nj.gov)

Jobs and Income — Veteran‑Priority Employment in NJ

Ask for veteran‑priority help at your nearest One‑Stop Career Center and request a meeting with a DVOP specialist (Disabled Veterans’ Outreach Program) for résumé targeting, training, and referral to veteran‑friendly employers. Start at NJ Career Services — Veteran Services and find your local One‑Stop. (nj.gov)

For personalized placement and entrepreneurship support, contact GI Go Fund (Newark) at 1‑866‑389‑4446 and ask about their Jackson Drysdale Center for Job Training and their veteran business incubator; they can coordinate with VSOs on benefits while you train. Use GI Go contact for scheduling. (gigo.org)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your One‑Stop to escalate to a Local Veterans’ Employment Representative (LVER) for employer outreach; loop in your DMAVA VSO to address benefits‑related barriers like disability rating updates. (nj.gov)

Education and Training — GI Bill and DEA for Survivors

Use Post‑9/11 GI Bill for tuition and Monthly Housing Allowance (MHA) based on your campus ZIP (E‑5 with dependents); ask your school’s veteran office to certify enrollment early. For dependents/survivors using DEA (Chapter 35), 2024‑25 full‑time monthly rate is $1,536 (higher rates begin Oct 2025). Confirm current rates at Chapter 35 Rates 2024‑25 and Future DEA rates 2025‑26. (va.gov)

Use Rutgers’ veteran offices for local advising and certification help: Rutgers Veteran & Military Programs (NB/Newark/Camden) and Rutgers Newark Veterans Resources; ask about priority registration and credit evaluations. (veterans.rutgers.edu)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Call VA Education at 1‑888‑442‑4551 for payment status, then ask your School Certifying Official to submit amended certifications; escalate through Ask VA with your file number. Use DEA rates page for proof of rate. (va.gov)

Small Business and State Contracting — Veteran/DVOB Certification

New Jersey has a 3% set‑aside goal for Disabled Veteran‑Owned Businesses (DVOB); in January 2024, the law was updated so an agency can set aside a contract when at least two qualified DVOBs are likely to bid (down from three). Apply for certification and get listed for bid opportunities. Use Treasury Business Certification Program and see the Governor’s update on DVOB set‑aside change. (nj.gov)

If you’re a veteran owner without a disability rating, apply for state VOB certification and consider federal VA/SBA VetCert pathways for VOSB/SDVOSB; start on Business.NJ.gov VOB/DVOB for eligibility and renew annually. Pair with GI Go Fund mentoring for startup support. (business.nj.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Call Treasury’s certification unit at 609‑292‑2146 to troubleshoot documentation; ask NJ State Veterans Chamber of Commerce for matchmaking while your certification processes. Use Business Certification Program as your reference. (nj.gov)

Transportation and Licensing — Save Money Getting to Work and Care

Veterans with a “service‑connected” VA digital ID can buy NJ TRANSIT one‑way reduced tickets (select “Senior/Disabled” in the app or vending machine); active, reserve, Guard, and retired military also qualify, and Veterans Day/Fleet Week often have free ride promotions. Check NJ TRANSIT Military Discount and their press guidance on veterans discounts. (njtransit.com)

Certain disabled veterans qualify for free MVC registration in specific circumstances; call 609‑292‑6500 ext. 5076 for the application and confirm you meet the criteria (free registration is limited and not universal). See NJ MVC — Veterans and review new plate/placard options in 2024‑25. (nj.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask the VA NJ social work office for a DAV van ride to medical appointments; contact Lyons 908‑647‑0180 for routes. Read DAV Vans at VA NJ and keep your appointment letters ready. (va.gov)

Local Organizations, Charities, and Support Hubs (NJ Veteran‑Focused)

Community Hope — Hope for Veterans: SSVF and transitional housing, wide county coverage; call 1‑855‑483‑8466; see Community Hope SSVF and Contact page. (communityhope-nj.org)
Veterans Multi‑Service Center (South Jersey): SSVF, employment, and Women Veterans Program; see VMC Women Veterans and the Vineland office listing (856‑293‑7321). (vmcenter.org)
Volunteers of America Delaware Valley: Housing services and veteran assistance in South NJ; use VOADV services and VOADV contact to connect. (voadv.org)
GI Go Fund (Newark): Employment, benefits navigation, and small‑business help; call 1‑866‑389‑4446; see GI Go homepage and GI Go contact. (gigo.org)
Volunteer Lawyers for Justice (statewide): Free civil legal help for veterans (eviction, debt, family law); apply at VLJ Veterans Legal Program or call 973‑645‑1955; check VA NJ events for clinics. (vljnj.org)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your DMAVA VSO to loop these partners into a shared plan and set weekly check‑ins; add a Vet Center counselor for stress management while you stabilize housing. (nj.gov)

Diverse Communities — Tailored Notes and Contacts

LGBTQ+ single mothers: Ask for the VA LGBTQ+ Health Program contact at Lyons (908‑647‑0180 ext. 21‑4160) and request affirming reproductive and mental health care; you can route through the Women Veterans Call Center and confirm inclusive services at VA NJ Health Services. (va.gov)

Single mothers with disabilities or disabled children: Confirm Special Monthly Compensation or caregiver supports; VA has proposed expansions to the Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers and extended legacy eligibility to 2028; verify with your Caregiver Support Coordinator via VA NJ Health Services. (news.va.gov)

Veteran single mothers (women who served): Use Women Veteran Care in NJ and the Women Veterans Call Center to connect to a Women Veterans Program Manager and Maternity Care Coordinator; ask for MST‑informed counseling. (va.gov)

Immigrant/refugee single moms: You can access VA care and benefits based on service, not citizenship; use VA NJ Patient Advocate directory and ask for interpreter services through VA Women’s Health when booking. (va.gov)

Tribal‑affiliated single moms: If eligible as a surviving spouse or veteran on federal trust land, ask about VA’s NADL home loan and connect with state resources via the NJ Commission on American Indian Affairs for local VA contacts. (va.gov)

Rural single moms: Use Vet Centers and VA Video Connect to reduce travel; request community care for OB/mammo when distance is a barrier; your contact hub remains the Women Veterans Call Center. (choose.va.gov)

Single fathers: Many services listed (SSVF, HUD‑VASH, Vet Centers) are gender‑neutral; connect through DMAVA VSOs and VA NJ Health Services for the same supports. (nj.gov)

Language access and accessibility: VA offers interpreters and TTY 711; ask for large‑print forms or screen‑reader‑friendly PDFs via VA NJ Contact and Women Veterans Health. (va.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Elevate through the facility Patient Advocate and loop in your DMAVA VSO; request reasonable accommodations in writing and track responses. (nj.gov)

Resources by Region (North, Central, South)

North Jersey (Bergen, Essex, Hudson, Morris, Passaic, Sussex, Union, Warren): Use East Orange VA for women’s health and the Secaucus/Bloomfield Vet Centers for confidential counseling; for prevention/rapid re‑housing, call Community Hope SSVF. (va.gov)

Central Jersey (Middlesex, Somerset, Mercer, Monmouth, Hunterdon): Use Lyons VA for Women’s Health and social work; pair housing help through Community Hope SSVF; for jobs, visit One‑Stops in New Brunswick/Perth Amboy. (va.gov)

South Jersey (Atlantic, Burlington, Camden, Cape May, Cumberland, Gloucester, Salem): Use the South Jersey Vet Center (Egg Harbor Twp) for counseling and VMC SSVF in Vineland for rent/utility help; if you need transitional housing, call Veterans Haven South admissions. (va.gov)

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Waiting to call SSVF until the eviction date: Call as soon as you get a notice; SSVF can intervene with landlords faster if you contact SSVF intake early, and the VA Homeless hotline can “warm handoff” you to a grantee. (communityhope-nj.org)
Assuming VA maternity covers doulas/home birth: Many non‑standard services aren’t covered; confirm with your VA Maternity Coordinator before scheduling, and ask about covered lactation supplies. (womenshealth.va.gov)
Filing property‑tax forms without your VA letter: The 100% disabled exemption needs a VA certification; use Taxation’s disabled vet page and have your VSO review it. (nj.gov)

Reality Check — Processing Delays Happen

Expect 10–15 business days for many non‑crisis SSVF payments once complete paperwork is in; benefits claims can take months; property‑tax decisions vary by town. Protect yourself by getting a same‑day letter from SSVF or your VSO to show landlords and courts while funds move. (communityhope-nj.org)

Quick Reference Cheat Sheet (Veteran‑Only)

Need	First Call	Back‑Up	Notes
Eviction/utility shutoff	SSVF intake (Community Hope)	VA Homeless Hotline 1‑877‑424‑3838	Ask for prevention or rapid re‑housing; bring lease and notice. (communityhope-nj.org)
Pregnancy/postpartum	Women Veterans Call Center	Women Veteran Care in NJ	Request Maternity Care Coordinator; ask about pumps/belts. (womenshealth.va.gov)
MST counseling	Vet Center 24/7 1‑877‑927‑8387	VA MST info	Care is free even without a rating. (mentalhealth.va.gov)
Disability/DIC claim	DMAVA VSO	VA rates page	Mark PACT Act when relevant. (nj.gov)
Property‑tax relief	Taxation — Veterans	Taxation — 100% Disabled	Keep VA letter with forms. (nj.gov)

Application Checklist (print/screenshot)

DD‑214 (or VA letter for survivor status) — get copies via military records online and store digital.
Photo ID and proof of NJ residency — prep for DMAVA VSO and Taxation forms. (nj.gov)
Income proof and lease/shutoff notices — needed for SSVF and VFW Unmet Needs. (communityhope-nj.org)
Children’s birth certificates/custody orders — required for Legion TFA grants and some housing programs. (legion.org)
VA disability letter (if applicable) — needed for 100% Disabled Tax Exemption and some certifications. (nj.gov)

If Your Application Gets Denied (Troubleshooting)

Housing/SSVF: Ask for a written denial with the cited CFR rule; request a supervisor case review and have your DMAVA VSO and VA social worker join a case conference; re‑apply through a different SSVF provider if geography permits. (nj.gov)
Property‑tax: File a County Board of Taxation appeal by April 1 (Jan 15 in Burlington/Gloucester/Monmouth) and attach your VA letter; see Veterans deduction page. (nj.gov)
VA benefits: Use a supplemental claim with new evidence; if you faced MST, ask for an MST‑trained examiner; use Vet Centers for statement support; confirm 2025 rates on VA rates page. (choose.va.gov)

County‑Specific Variations Worth Noting

Property‑tax appeal deadlines differ (Jan 15 in Burlington, Gloucester, Monmouth); confirm with your assessor and NJ Division of Taxation; ask your County Veterans Office for local document requirements and processing timelines. (nj.gov)

Tables You Can Use

A. Women’s Health and Safety Contacts (VA NJ)

Service	Where to Start	Backup
Women’s Health clinic scheduling	East Orange Women’s Health	Lyons Women’s Health (va.gov)
Maternity Care Coordinator	Women Veterans Call Center	VA Maternity Care (womenshealth.va.gov)
MST/IPV assistance	VA NJ IPV Program	VA MST info (va.gov)

B. Housing Programs (Eligibility Snapshot)

Program	Veteran Status	Family With Kids	Income Test
SSVF	Other‑than‑dishonorable, 1+ day AD	Yes	≤ very low income by area
HUD‑VASH	VA homeless eligibility	Yes	PHA income rules
Veterans Haven	NJ veteran	Case‑by‑case	N/A

Use SSVF NOFO and HUD‑VASH overview to verify. (federalregister.gov)

C. Cash Grants for Veteran Families

Grant	Max	Pays To	Good For
VFW Unmet Needs	$2,500	Creditor	Utilities, rent, car
Legion TFA	$2,500	Vendor	Kids’ essentials, housing/utility

See VFW grants and Legion TFA. (vfw.org)

D. Property‑Tax Relief in NJ

Benefit	Amount	Who	Where to File
Veteran Deduction	$250/yr	Honorably discharged veterans and eligible surviving spouses	Municipal assessor/collector
100% Disabled Exemption	Full exemption	100% P&T service‑connected; eligible surviving spouse	Municipal assessor

See Taxation — Deduction and Taxation — Disabled Exemption. (nj.gov)

E. Low‑Cost Transit Options for Veterans

Program	Who	How
NJ TRANSIT Reduced Fare	Service‑connected veterans; active/retired military and dependents	Select “Senior/Disabled” in the app; show VA “service connected” ID
DAV Vans	Any eligible veteran to VA care	Schedule through DAV Vans at VA NJ

See NJ TRANSIT Military Discount and DAV Vans. (njtransit.com)

FAQs (New Jersey, Veteran‑Specific)

How fast can SSVF stop an eviction in NJ?
SSVF can issue landlord promises and payments once eligibility is verified; triage happens within 24–72 business hours in many cases, quicker for families with kids; call SSVF intake and the VA Homeless hotline for a warm handoff. (communityhope-nj.org)
Does VA maternity care cover my newborn beyond 7 days?
VA covers newborn care on the date of birth plus 7 days; confirm pediatric handoff before delivery and use your Maternity Care Coordinator and Women Veterans Call Center to plan follow‑up. (womenshealth.va.gov)
Can VA help with child care during appointments?
VA is implementing VCAP nationally but availability varies by site in 2025; ask your facility if VCAP is active and whether reimbursement is available; see VCAP notice and contact Women Veterans Call Center for workarounds. (govinfo.gov)
What are 2025 VA disability rates for veterans with kids?
Rates rose with a 2.5% COLA effective 12/01/2024; check the current table (added amounts per child) at VA compensation rates and file through a DMAVA VSO for accuracy. (va.gov)
I’m a surviving spouse — how much is DIC in 2025?
Base monthly is $1,653.07 with added amounts for children and Aid & Attendance; verify your category on Current DIC rates and note the COLA notice at Federal Register. (va.gov)
How do I get my NJ veteran property‑tax benefit?
For $250, file the V.S.S. claim with your town assessor; for the 100% disabled exemption, submit your VA letter and DVSSE form. Details are at Taxation — Veterans and Taxation — Disabled Exemption. (nj.gov)
Are there veteran‑specific discounts on NJ TRANSIT?
Yes — service‑connected veterans, active/retired military, and dependents can use the reduced one‑way fare; select Senior/Disabled and show qualifying ID. See NJ TRANSIT Military page and seasonal press notices. (njtransit.com)
Where can I get confidential counseling without enrolling in VA health care?
Vet Centers provide free, confidential counseling for eligible veterans and families; call 1‑877‑927‑8387 or find a Vet Center; in South Jersey, see South Jersey Vet Center. (choose.va.gov)
Any state help to start a veteran‑owned business?
Yes — get DVOB or VOB certification via Treasury’s Business Certification and learn about set‑aside updates at the Governor’s DVOB announcement; ask Business.NJ.gov VOB/DVOB about renewal. (nj.gov)
Can I use a VA home loan as a surviving spouse?
Yes — eligible surviving spouses can get a COE for VA loans and often pay no funding fee; start at Surviving Spouse Home Loans and Loan eligibility. (va.gov)

Spanish Quick Summary (resumen en español)

Esta guía cubre programas solo para veteranas madres solteras en Nueva Jersey — vivienda (SSVF/HUD‑VASH), salud para mujeres (VA NJ), beneficios por discapacidad y DIC, exenciones de impuestos a la propiedad, empleos y asistencia legal. Para vivienda y facturas de servicios, llame a Community Hope SSVF 1‑855‑483‑8466 o a la Línea Nacional de Personas sin Hogar de VA 1‑877‑424‑3838. Para salud y embarazo, use la Línea de Mujeres Veteranas 1‑855‑829‑6636. Para ayuda legal civil, contacte VLJ — Programa de Veteranos 973‑645‑1955. Nota: Esta traducción fue producida con herramientas de IA; verifique siempre la información oficial en los enlaces. (communityhope-nj.org)

About This Guide

Compiled by the ASingleMother.org Editorial Team.

This guide uses official sources including:

VA New Jersey Health Care System and Women Veterans Health. (va.gov)
NJ Department of Military and Veterans Affairs (DMAVA) and DMAVA Veterans Service Offices. (nj.gov)
NJ Division of Taxation — Veterans Property Tax and 100% Disabled Exemption. (nj.gov)
SSVF Federal Register Notice and VA HUD‑VASH overview. (federalregister.gov)
VA Compensation & DIC Rates and Current DIC rates. (va.gov)
NJ Treasury — Business Certification (DVOB/VOB) and Governor’s DVOB announcement. (nj.gov)
NJ TRANSIT Military Discount and DAV Vans at VA NJ. (njtransit.com)

Last verified September 2025, next review April January 2026.
This guide is produced under our Editorial Standards using official sources, updated regularly, but it’s not legal advice, not affiliated with any agency, and can’t guarantee individual outcomes. Corrections? Email info@asinglemother.org and we’ll respond within 72 hours.

Disclaimer

This information is for educational purposes. Program rules, dollar amounts, and eligibility change. Always confirm by calling the program or office linked here. When possible, ask for written confirmation (email or letter) and save every receipt and case number.