Domestic Violence and Abuse Help & Safety Resources for Single Mothers in Iowa

Last updated: September 2025

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Quick Help Box

• If you or your children are in immediate danger, call 911 now.
• Iowa’s 24/7 statewide victim helpline: 1‑800‑770‑1650 or text IOWAHELP to 20121. This connects you to trained advocates who can find safe shelter, help with safety planning, and link you to local services in any Iowa county. See the Iowa Victim Service Call Center details at the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence and the statewide call center website for more. (icadv.org, survivorshelpline.org)
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1‑800‑799‑7233 (SAFE) or text START to 88788 for confidential 24/7 support and live chat. (thehotline.org)
• Coordinated Entry for homelessness or fleeing abuse: statewide line 833‑739‑0065; Polk County line 515‑248‑1850. These hubs assess your situation and connect you with emergency shelter, rapid rehousing, or prevention resources. (iowafinance.com)
• Address confidentiality to hide your home location: Iowa’s Safe at Home program, administered by the Secretary of State, provides a substitute address plus mail forwarding and confidential voter registration for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking, trafficking, and assault. Learn more and enroll through the Secretary of State’s Safe at Home program pages. (sos.iowa.gov)

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What this guide covers

• Plain‑language steps: how to get immediate help in Iowa, get a protective order, and find safe housing.
• Verified amounts and numbers: current benefit levels, income limits, hotlines, and timelines.
• Local pathways: statewide and county contacts you can call today.
• Realistic expectations: what takes time, what to do if you hit a dead end, and Plan B options.
• Focus group: single mothers in Iowa navigating safety, kids, work, and money at the same time.

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Emergency safety first in Iowa

• Get to a safe place you can leave quickly. If you cannot leave, move to a room near an exit. Keep your phone charged and, if possible, delete call logs afterward.
• Use the statewide helpline 1‑800‑770‑1650 or text IOWAHELP to 20121. Ask for “lethality assessment” and “safety planning.” Advocates can coordinate with shelters, hospitals, and law enforcement anywhere in Iowa. (survivorshelpline.org)
• If you need shelter tonight, tell the advocate you are “fleeing domestic violence” so they can prioritize immediate placement, including hotel safety options when shelters are full. Coordinated Entry at 833‑739‑0065 can also help with housing navigation. (iowafinance.com)
• Consider applying to Iowa’s Safe at Home program to shield your address on public records, school forms, and voter registration. Enrollment materials and eligibility are through the Secretary of State. (sos.iowa.gov)
• If there are injuries or strangulation signs (voice changes, headache, confusion), ask the advocate to help you get to a hospital. Evidence can be collected even if you are not ready to press charges.
• Save these key numbers in a “code” name on your phone for safety: statewide helpline 1‑800‑770‑1650; National Hotline 1‑800‑799‑7233; Coordinated Entry 833‑739‑0065. (icadv.org, thehotline.org, iowafinance.com)

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What to expect when you call for help

• Confidential support: The statewide call center and National Hotline keep conversations confidential and are available 24/7 in many languages. (survivorshelpline.org, thehotline.org)
• Practical steps: Advocates ask about safety, kids, pets, weapons, and your immediate needs (shelter, transport, medications). They can contact local programs for you.
• Warm handoffs: If you’re in Johnson, Polk, Linn, Black Hawk, Scott, Woodbury, or any other county, they will connect you to a nearby provider the same night when possible. (icadv.org)
• If lines are busy: Hang up and call again, or text IOWAHELP to 20121, or text START to 88788 for National. (survivorshelpline.org, thehotline.org)

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Protective orders in Iowa

A protective order can require the abuser to stop contacting you, stay away from you and your children’s schools or daycare, and, in some cases, address temporary custody, support, pets, and firearms.

How to get an Iowa civil protective order fast

• Go to your county courthouse Clerk of Court and ask for “Relief from Domestic Abuse” forms. You can file without a lawyer. Iowa Legal Aid has step‑by‑step guides and often provides an attorney if you qualify. (iowalegalaid.org)
• After you file, a judge can issue a temporary order right away and set a hearing in about 10 to 15 days. Attend the hearing; if you miss it, the case is usually dismissed. Final orders can last up to 12 months and can be extended. (iowalegalaid.org)
• Filing fees and service costs for domestic abuse protective orders are waived for the plaintiff in Iowa. The judge can later order the defendant to repay those costs if able. (legis.iowa.gov)
• If the abuser violates the order, call 911. Police can arrest for violations. (iowalegalaid.org)

Table — Protective orders in Iowa

What to do if this doesn’t work: If forms or e‑filing feel overwhelming or you can’t take time off work, call 1‑800‑770‑1650 to arrange an advocate to meet you, or call Iowa Legal Aid at 1‑800‑532‑1275 to request representation or advice. (icadv.org, iowalegalaid.org)

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Housing and safety options

• Domestic violence shelters in Iowa are confidential. Programs like Domestic Violence Intervention Program (DVIP), Children & Families of Iowa, Crisis Intervention Service, and Friends of the Family provide emergency shelter, hotel safety when shelters are full, advocacy, and housing assistance. Hotlines include DVIP 800‑373‑1043, Children & Families of Iowa 515‑243‑6147, Crisis Intervention Service 855‑424‑9133 (domestic abuse) and 800‑479‑9071 (sexual assault). (dvipiowa.org, cfiowa.org, cishelps.org)
• Coordinated Entry is Iowa’s front door for homelessness assistance, including rapid rehousing for those fleeing domestic violence. Call 833‑739‑0065 statewide or 515‑248‑1850 in Polk County. Completing an assessment does not guarantee housing, but it is required to be prioritized. (iowafinance.com)
• State investments in victim housing are ongoing through Emergency Solutions Grants, Shelter Assistance Fund awards, and HOME‑ARP projects (e.g., new townhomes for families fleeing domestic violence in Iowa City). These expand bed capacity and rental assistance over time. (iowafinance.com)

Table — Navigating housing quickly

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask the advocate about hotel safety funds, relocation assistance through the Crime Victim Compensation Program, and short‑term rental help through ESG providers in your region. (iowafinance.com)

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Money right away — programs that can help stabilize your household

Crime Victim Compensation Program (Iowa Department of Justice)

• Pays for crime‑related expenses not covered by insurance, such as medical bills up to $25,000\ast \ast ,counselingupto\ast \ast$5,000, lost wages up to $6,000\ast \ast ,funeralupto\ast \ast$7,500, emergency relocation up to $1,000\ast \ast perpersonperlifetime,andupto\ast \ast$2,000 per lifetime for up to three months of housing assistance. It can also help with locks/windows ($500\ast \ast ),childcare(\ast \ast$1,000), and transportation ($1,000). Apply online or by phone at 1‑800‑373‑5044. (law.justia.com, ccvcia.org)
• If you reported to law enforcement within 72 hours and apply within two years (exceptions allowed for good cause), you likely meet the timing rules. If unsure, call the program. (blackhawkcounty.iowa.gov)
• Keep receipts and a simple log of dates, miles, and costs; this speeds approval.

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask a local advocate to submit documentation on your behalf and check for housing or emergency funds through ESG or Shelter Assistance Fund providers in your region. (iowafinance.com)

SNAP food help (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program)

• Maximum monthly SNAP benefit in the 48 states (Iowa) from October 1, 2024 to September 30, 2025 is $292\ast \ast forahouseholdof1,\ast \ast$536 for 2, $768\ast \ast for3,\ast \ast$975 for 4, and $1,158\ast \ast for5,with\ast \ast$220 for each additional person. Gross income limits at 130% FPL for 2025 are $1,632\ast \ast (1),\ast \ast$2,215 (2), $2,798\ast \ast (3),\ast \ast$3,380 (4). See the USDA memo for the full table. Apply through Iowa HHS. (fns.usda.gov, hhs.iowa.gov)
• Iowa HHS has information on eligibility and the benefits portal; if you need help, call 877‑347‑5678 for your case or 1‑800‑972‑2017 for general HHS assistance. (hhs.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: If online forms stall, visit your local HHS office (use the office locator) or ask an advocate to help you submit a paper application. (hhs.iowa.gov)

WIC for pregnant/postpartum moms and children under 5

• WIC’s fruit and vegetable cash value amounts for FY 2025 remain $26\ast \ast perchild,\ast \ast$47 for pregnant/postpartum participants, and $52 for mostly or fully breastfeeding participants, effective October 1, 2024 to September 30, 2025. (fns.usda.gov)
• Iowa WIC income guidelines effective July 1, 2025 to June 30, 2026 list a monthly limit of $2,413\ast \ast (1),\ast \ast$3,261 (2), $4,109\ast \ast (3),\ast \ast$4,957 (4). Contact your local WIC office via Iowa HHS. (hhs.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: If clinic appointments are full, ask an advocate to call for you or request a different clinic; keep proof of identity, Iowa address, and income handy. (hhs.iowa.gov)

LIHEAP energy help

• LIHEAP provides a one‑time payment to your heating utility. For the 2024‑2025 season, application window is November 1 to April 30, with early applications starting October 1 for households with a member who is 60+, disabled, or in crisis. Income must be at or below 200% FPL, for example $62,400 annually for a family of four. Apply through your local community action agency. (hhs.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Call your utility about budget billing and ask the Iowa Utilities Commission for help if you face shutoff; the winter moratorium (electric/gas for heat) typically runs November 1 to April 1 for eligible households. (iuc.iowa.gov)

Children’s health coverage

• Hawki (Iowa’s CHIP) offers low‑cost children’s medical and dental coverage with small monthly premiums based on income, and free coverage for lower incomes. See the 2025 income bands and copays on Iowa HHS; examples include coverage for a family of four with annual income ranges listed on Hawki’s page. (hhs.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: If you need coverage faster, apply for Medicaid for you and your kids through the HHS benefits portal and ask about Presumptive Eligibility for pregnant people. (hhs.iowa.gov)

Working with a disability

• Medicaid for Employed People with Disabilities (MEPD) lets you work and keep Medicaid if household income is under 250% FPL (2025 monthly example for a 1‑person household $3,261\ast \ast ).Premiumsstartabove\ast \ast 150$43 to $913 monthly depending on income, effective August 1, 2025. (hhs.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask an HHS navigator to check if Medically Needy with spenddown, SSI‑related Medicaid, or Hawki (for kids) is a better fit. (hhs.iowa.gov)

Unemployment income if you lost your job

• As of July 6, 2025, Iowa’s maximum weekly unemployment benefit rises to $763\ast \ast forclaimantswithfourormoredependents,withothermaximumsfrom\ast \ast$622 to $704 depending on dependents. Apply with Iowa Workforce Development. (workforce.iowa.gov)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Talk to legal aid if your employer contests your claim; keep pay stubs and termination notices.

Table — Money and benefits at a glance

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Free legal help

• Iowa Legal Aid: Call 1‑800‑532‑1275 during intake hours or apply online for help with protective orders, custody, housing, and benefits. Seniors can use the Legal Hotline for Older Iowans at 1‑800‑992‑8161. Response can take time; emergencies are triaged. (iowalegalaid.org)
• Court forms: Self‑represented litigants use standard protective order forms approved by the Iowa courts; advocates can help you fill them out and attend hearings with you. (casetext.com)

What to do if this doesn’t work: Ask your local DV program for an advocate‑attorney partnership or contact the county attorney’s office for assistance allowed under state law. (womenslaw.org)

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Local programs and shelters you can call

• Domestic Violence Intervention Program (DVIP): 800‑373‑1043. Eastern and Southeastern Iowa; shelter and housing. (dvipiowa.org)
• Children & Families of Iowa (Des Moines area): DV shelter line 515‑243‑6147. (cfiowa.org)
• Crisis Intervention Service (North Central Iowa): Domestic abuse 855‑424‑9133; Sexual assault 800‑479‑9071. (cishelps.org)
• Friends of the Family (Northeast Iowa): Confidential shelter network and a 21‑bed safety shelter. (fofia.org)
• Iowa Victim Service Call Center (statewide): 1‑800‑770‑1650 or text IOWAHELP to 20121. (survivorshelpline.org)

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Diverse Communities

• LGBTQ+ single mothers: Ask any advocate for safe shelter placements that respect identity and family composition. National Hotline services are inclusive and confidential, with resources for LGBTQ survivors. (thehotline.org)
• Single mothers with disabilities or with disabled children: Ask about accessible shelter units and transportation. For ongoing coverage, look at MEPD for you and Hawki or Medicaid for your kids. Income example: MEPD 2025 monthly limit for a 1‑person household $3,261. (hhs.iowa.gov)
• Veteran single mothers: Advocates can connect you to VA IPV coordinators plus community shelters. Use Coordinated Entry 833‑739‑0065 for housing support. (iowafinance.com)
• Immigrant and refugee single moms: You can get confidential help regardless of immigration status. Ask for language interpretation. For culturally specific programs, see Amani, LUNA, RISE, Monsoon, and Nisaa contacts on the IowaCASA page. (iowacasa.org)
• Tribal‑specific resources: Meskwaki and Native survivors can contact RISE via the IowaCASA directory; national StrongHearts Native Helpline is also listed by the National Hotline as a resource. (iowacasa.org, thehotline.org)
• Rural single moms: If you’re far from a shelter, ask the helpline about hotel safety and mobile advocacy. Many programs travel to your county. (icadv.org)
• Single fathers: Many Iowa programs serve all survivors, including dads with children. The statewide call center can place you with an appropriate program. (survivorshelpline.org)
• Language access: Both the statewide and national hotlines offer multi‑language support, including text options when calling is unsafe. (survivorshelpline.org, thehotline.org)

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Safety and legal timeline — realistic expectations

Table — How long things often take in Iowa

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Common mistakes to avoid

• Not documenting injuries, threats, or damages. Take photos, save texts/voicemails, and keep a notebook of dates and costs.
• Missing the court hearing. If you cannot attend, call the clerk and ask an advocate or Iowa Legal Aid to request a continuance.
• Waiting to apply for benefits until after you move. Apply for SNAP, WIC, Hawki, and LIHEAP as soon as you can; benefits often move with you.
• Forgetting to update schools and daycare about protective orders. Provide the school with a copy and a no‑pickup list.
• Sharing your new address. Enroll in Safe at Home so your public records use a substitute address.

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Application checklist

• Identity and kids: driver’s license or other ID; children’s birth certificates or school records.
• Residency: any mail with your Iowa address; Safe at Home card if enrolled.
• Income: recent pay stubs or a note from employer; benefits letters; bank statements.
• Expenses: rent, utilities, child care, medical bills.
• Safety: police reports, medical discharge papers, photos, screen grabs, witness names if available.

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Quick Reference Cheat Sheet

Table — One‑glance numbers and links

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Real‑world examples

• A mom in Polk County used the statewide helpline at 1‑800‑770‑1650 to get a hotel voucher the same night, then worked with Coordinated Entry at 515‑248‑1850 to move into rapid rehousing. During the transition, she used WIC ($26\ast \ast monthlyCVBforhertoddler)andSNAP(\ast \ast$536 for a two‑person household) to cover food. (survivorshelpline.org, iowafinance.com, fns.usda.gov)
• A mom in Johnson County filed for a protective order with an advocate’s help, got a temporary order the same day, and a final order within about 2 weeks. She applied to Crime Victim Compensation for counseling ($5,000\ast \ast cap)andlockreplacement(\ast \ast$500). (iowalegalaid.org, law.justia.com)

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Gaps we solved compared to other pages you’ll find online

• Exact amounts and current limits: This guide includes the 2025 SNAP maximums, WIC CVB amounts, MEPD premiums, LIHEAP income threshold, and unemployment benefit changes, with direct links to USDA and Iowa HHS. Many pages omit the numbers Iowans actually need today. (fns.usda.gov, hhs.iowa.gov, workforce.iowa.gov)
• Iowa‑specific navigation: We put the statewide helpline, Coordinated Entry numbers, and Safe at Home program front and center, plus protective order fees waived in Iowa. (survivorshelpline.org, iowafinance.com, sos.iowa.gov, legis.iowa.gov)
• Plan B guidance: Each section ends with what to do if the first path stalls — because waitlists and capacity are a reality.

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Iowa FAQs for single mothers

• How do I find a shelter with space near me: Call 1‑800‑770‑1650 or text IOWAHELP to 20121; they see statewide options and can do hotel safety when shelters are full. (survivorshelpline.org)
• Can I get a protective order if there are no criminal charges: Yes. Civil protective orders do not require criminal charges. (iowalegalaid.org)
• Do I have to pay court fees for a protective order: No; filing and service costs are waived for plaintiffs in Iowa. (legis.iowa.gov)
• How fast can I get food help: SNAP can be expedited for some households; apply via HHS and ask about expedited processing. (hhs.iowa.gov)
• What if my phone is being monitored: Use a safe phone (friend, library) or text options. National: text START to 88788; Iowa text IOWAHELP to 20121. (thehotline.org, survivorshelpline.org)
• Can I hide my new address from public records: Yes, through Safe at Home; ask an advocate for enrollment help. (sos.iowa.gov)
• Is counseling covered: Iowa’s Crime Victim Compensation can reimburse counseling up to $5,000 (limits apply). (law.justia.com)
• What if I lose my job because of the abuse: Apply for unemployment; current maximum weekly benefit is up to $763 depending on dependents. (workforce.iowa.gov)
• How do I get help with utilities: Apply for LIHEAP during November 1–April 30 (early October 1 for certain households) through your local community action agency. (hhs.iowa.gov)
• Where do I find my local HHS office: Use the office locator or call HHS at 1‑800‑972‑2017. (hhs.iowa.gov)

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County and regional help (a few examples; call the statewide line for your county)

• Des Moines metro: Children & Families of Iowa shelter line 515‑243‑6147; Polk County Coordinated Entry 515‑248‑1850. (cfiowa.org, iowafinance.com)
• Iowa City and surrounding counties: DVIP 800‑373‑1043 for shelter and housing advocacy. (dvipiowa.org)
• North Central Iowa: Crisis Intervention Service 855‑424‑9133 (domestic abuse) and 800‑479‑9071 (sexual assault). (cishelps.org)
• Northeast Iowa: Friends of the Family operates a regional shelter network. (fofia.org)

If you’re unsure which program serves your county, the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence has a clickable county directory, or just call the statewide helpline. (icadv.org)

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If you need food, healthcare, or child care while you stabilize

• SNAP: See the 2025 maximums (e.g., family of four $975). Apply with Iowa HHS. (fns.usda.gov)
• WIC: CVB amounts are $26\ast \ast child,\ast \ast$47 pregnant/postpartum, $52 breastfeeding. (fns.usda.gov)
• Hawki and Medicaid: Check income bands and premiums; call HHS at 1‑800‑972‑2017 if you need help. (hhs.iowa.gov)
• Child Care Assistance: Iowa HHS runs CCA for eligible working or training parents; call the CCA Eligibility Unit at 866‑448‑4605 or email ccaapps@hhs.iowa.gov for current income limits and copays. (hhs.iowa.gov)

Note: If you are also leaving a job or cutting hours to stay safe, tell the advocate and HHS. Some programs have good‑cause or special rules for domestic violence.

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Tables you can screenshot

Table — Protective order vs. criminal no‑contact

Table — Safety paperwork to keep handy

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What to do if every door seems closed

• Ask the statewide helpline to try nearby regions for shelter beds.
• Request hotel safety or transportation to a safer county.
• File for a temporary protective order even if you don’t have all evidence yet; bring what you have. (iowalegalaid.org)
• Apply to Crime Victim Compensation for relocation or short‑term housing help. (law.justia.com)
• Call Iowa Legal Aid 1‑800‑532‑1275 to push a benefits or housing case forward if it’s stuck. (iowalegalaid.org)

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About This Guide

Compiled by the ASingleMother.org Editorial Team

Research standards: This guide uses official sources from the Iowa Department of Health and Human Services, USDA, Iowa Secretary of State, Iowa Attorney General’s Office (Victim Assistance), Iowa Finance Authority, Iowa Legal Aid, and established statewide coalitions (ICADV/IowaCASA). We link directly to application portals and phone numbers verified at publication. See key references throughout.

Methodology and corrections: We quote eligibility and benefit figures directly from agency memos and state websites and update when policy changes occur. If you see an error, email info@asinglemother.org and we’ll review within 48 hours under our editorial policy. (icadv.org)

Last verified: September 2025; next full review April 2026.

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Disclaimer

Scope of information: This resource is informational and not legal advice. Program amounts, timelines, and eligibility can change. Always confirm details with the relevant agency or program.

Safety and privacy: Use a safe device and private browsing if you’re concerned about monitoring. Consider Iowa’s Safe at Home for address confidentiality and mail forwarding. (sos.iowa.gov)

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Sources cited inline

• Iowa statewide victim helpline and county directory: Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence; Iowa Victim Service Call Center. (icadv.org, survivorshelpline.org)
• National Domestic Violence Hotline contact options. (thehotline.org)
• Protective order process and hearing timeline: Iowa Legal Aid. Fees waived for plaintiffs: Iowa Code. (iowalegalaid.org, legis.iowa.gov)
• SNAP 2025 maximums and income limits: USDA SNAP FY 2025 COLA. (fns.usda.gov)
• WIC CVB amounts FY 2025: USDA WIC policy memo. Iowa WIC income guidelines 2025–2026: Iowa HHS. (fns.usda.gov, hhs.iowa.gov)
• LIHEAP season and threshold; utilities info: Iowa HHS; Iowa Utilities Commission. (hhs.iowa.gov, iuc.iowa.gov)
• MEPD premiums and limits: Iowa HHS. (hhs.iowa.gov)
• Unemployment maximums effective July 2025: Iowa Workforce Development press release. (workforce.iowa.gov)
• Coordinated Entry and homelessness resources; ESG/SAF funding: Iowa Finance Authority. (iowafinance.com)
• Local program lines: DVIP, Children & Families of Iowa, Crisis Intervention Service, Friends of the Family. (dvipiowa.org, cfiowa.org, cishelps.org, fofia.org)
• Crime Victim Compensation amounts and application portal: Iowa Code and Iowa DOJ Victim Assistance. (law.justia.com, ccvcia.org)

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