Last updated: May 20, 2026
If you are in danger right now
Call 911 if you or your children are in immediate danger. If calling from your own phone is not safe, use a safer phone when you can, such as a trusted neighbor, clinic, shelter, school, or public office.
You can also contact the National Hotline at 800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or use chat. Alaska Native mothers and family members can contact StrongHearts Native Helpline at 844-762-8483 by call, text, or chat.
If you are having thoughts of suicide, feel like you may hurt yourself, or need crisis counseling, call or text 988 Alaska. For local mental health crisis support, 988 is available day and night.
Bottom line
Single mothers in Alaska can get domestic violence help through statewide crisis lines, local shelter and advocacy programs, Alaska courts, crime victim compensation, legal aid, housing referrals, public benefits, and community services. You do not have to have every document ready before you ask for help. You also do not have to stay in a shelter to ask an advocate about safety, court forms, housing, or benefits.
This guide is for general information only. It is not legal advice, safety advice, medical advice, or a promise that a program will accept your case. Domestic violence situations can change fast. A local advocate, attorney, court clerk, police officer, medical provider, or crisis line can help you make safer choices for your specific situation.
Where to start in Alaska
If you can safely make one call, start with the crisis line closest to you. The CDVSA victim resources page says Alaska victim service programs provide safety planning and community-based advocacy, and most provide emergency shelter. These programs can also help if you live in a rural community, village, hub town, or are not ready to leave yet.
If you do not know which program covers your area, use the ANDVSA map or the Alaska Department of Law shelter directory. ANDVSA states that services from local domestic and sexual violence advocacy programs are confidential, free, and voluntary for victims and survivors.
If your main need is not shelter, you can still ask for help. Advocates often help with protective orders, court support, food, clothing, transportation, housing referrals, school changes, child safety issues, and benefits paperwork.
If you need safe shelter tonight
Call the nearest local DV or sexual assault program. Ask if they have shelter, safe homes, hotel options, or transport help.
If you need court protection
Start with the Alaska court page. Ask an advocate or the court clerk about forms and filing options.
If you need food or bills help
Call Alaska 211 at 2-1-1 or 800-478-2221 for nearby food, rent, utility, and basic needs resources.
If your housing is unsafe
Ask an advocate about shelter, emergency housing referrals, VAWA housing protections, and AHFC options.
Quick contacts for Alaska survivors
| Need | Start here | What to ask |
|---|---|---|
| Immediate danger | 911 | Ask for police, fire, or medical help now. |
| Domestic violence hotline | National Hotline: 800-799-7233 | Ask for safety planning, local referrals, or chat/text help. |
| Alaska Native support | StrongHearts: 844-762-8483 | Ask for culturally grounded support and Native-centered referrals. |
| Sexual assault hotline | RAINN: 800-656-4673 | Ask for a sexual assault advocate and medical exam options. |
| Mental health crisis | 988 | Call or text for crisis counseling, including if you are worried about yourself. |
| Food, rent, utilities | Alaska 211 | Ask for local basic needs programs near your town or village. |
Local domestic violence programs in Alaska
Alaska has large distances, weather limits, and many rural areas. That means help may look different depending on where you live. Some programs run shelters. Some use safe homes, hotel rooms, village advocates, or transport help. Some can help you by phone if you cannot travel.
Use the table below as a starting point, then confirm current services with the program. For the full list, use the state shelter directory or the ANDVSA map.
| Area | Program examples | How they may help |
|---|---|---|
| Anchorage | AWAIC, STAR, Victims for Justice | DV shelter, sexual assault advocacy, court support, victim support. |
| Fairbanks and Interior | Interior Alaska Center for Non-Violent Living | Shelter, crisis support, advocacy, rural outreach, children’s services. |
| Juneau and Southeast | AWARE and nearby regional programs | Shelter, court help, advocacy, counseling, rural support. |
| Bethel and Y-K Delta | Tundra Women’s Coalition | Shelter, crisis line, rural outreach, children’s services. |
| Kenai, Homer, Kodiak, Sitka | Local DV/SA agencies | Shelter or safe housing, advocacy, legal referrals, support groups. |
| Nome, Kotzebue, Utqiagvik, Unalaska | Regional victim programs | Crisis support, village outreach, safe homes, referral help. |
Tip for rural mothers
When you call, say your community name, whether you can travel safely, whether children are with you, and whether weather or flights are a barrier. Ask if the program can help by phone, through a village advocate, or by coordinating with a nearby hub community.
Protective orders in Alaska
Alaska courts have protective orders for domestic violence, stalking, and sexual assault. The right order depends on your relationship to the other person and what happened. The Alaska court page has forms, a step-by-step flowchart, videos, and instructions in several languages.
You can use the court’s electronic wizard or paper forms. If children are part of the case, the court says a judge may decide temporary custody and visitation if a long-term domestic violence protective order is granted. The judge may also order child support in that protective order case.
| Question | What to know | Practical step |
|---|---|---|
| Do I need a lawyer? | No lawyer is required to request a protective order, but legal help can be useful. | Ask an advocate, court clerk, or legal aid office before filing if you can. |
| Can children be included? | The court may address temporary custody and visitation in a long-term order. | Write down school, daycare, exchange, and contact concerns before the hearing. |
| What if I cannot travel? | Local programs may help you ask about filing options from a rural area. | Call the closest advocate and explain your travel limits. |
| What if the order is violated? | A violation can be serious and may involve police or court action. | Call 911 if you are in danger and keep copies of court papers where safe. |
The Alaska Department of Law also explains that protective orders may tell the abuser not to harm, threaten, harass, enter your home or workplace, or possess certain weapons in some cases. The same state page says you can ask a domestic violence program for help getting a protective order and that interpreters can be provided at no cost when needed. Read the state DV information before you file if you can do so safely.
Shelter, housing, and lease safety
Emergency shelter is usually the fastest housing help if you cannot safely stay where you are. A local advocate can also help you think through pets, school pickup, medicines, documents, transportation, and whether a shelter, safe home, hotel, friend’s home, or other plan is safer.
For longer-term housing, the Alaska Housing Finance Corporation has an Empowering Choice Housing Program. AHFC says it is referral based and is designed for individuals or families displaced by domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, or stalking. In some communities, this can connect families to rental assistance or preferential public housing waitlist placement. You must request a referral from an approved DVSA member agency.
If you already live in public housing, a Housing Choice Voucher unit, or other covered subsidized housing, ask your housing provider about VAWA protections. AHFC keeps VAWA forms for notice of rights, requests for protections, and emergency transfers.
Housing reality check
Shelter beds, vouchers, public housing, and rental help can be limited. A referral does not guarantee immediate housing. Ask the advocate what to do if the first option is full, if you have pets, if you need transport, or if you must keep your location private.
For broader housing information, see ASMOM’s Alaska housing help guide.
Money, food, health care, and basic needs
Leaving abuse can create urgent costs: food, gas, phone minutes, diapers, medicine, child care, locks, documents, and rent. Start with local advocates and public programs. Do not assume you are ineligible because you are working, staying with someone else, missing documents, or not ready to file a police report. Rules vary by program.
Crime victim compensation
The Alaska Violent Crimes Compensation Board may help eligible victims of violent crime with crime-related expenses such as loss of wages, medical costs, mental health counseling, and funeral or burial costs. The VCCB eligibility page says you must submit an application and have a loss directly caused by a violent crime. The VCCB application page says you can apply even if you do not yet know all expenses, and you can add more information later.
Food, cash, Medicaid, WIC, and heating help
The Alaska Division of Public Assistance runs several programs that may matter after abuse, including SNAP, Alaska Temporary Assistance, Medicaid, General Relief Assistance, Heating Assistance, and WIC. Use DPA services to compare programs, or use Alaska Connect to apply, renew, upload documents, and report changes through a myAlaska account.
ASMOM also has state-specific guides for Alaska SNAP, Alaska TANF, Alaska WIC, Alaska healthcare, and Alaska utility help.
Local basic needs
If you need food, clothing, transportation, furniture, school supplies, or diapers, call Alaska 211 or ask your advocate for a local referral. You can also check ASMOM guides for Alaska emergency help, Alaska community help, and baby gear help.
Legal help for protection, custody, divorce, housing, and immigration issues
Domestic violence can affect custody, divorce, child support, housing, immigration, employment, benefits, debt, and criminal victim rights. Try not to rely only on advice from friends, social media, or the other parent. Use local advocates and qualified legal help.
CDVSA lists legal services for victims, including legal advocacy support and statewide legal resources. The Alaska Law Help page on protective orders explains basic filing steps in plain language. You can also contact Alaska Legal Services for civil legal aid if you meet their intake rules.
If you are a victim in a criminal case and have questions about your rights with police, prosecutors, or court, the Office of Victims’ Rights may be a place to ask. If child support is part of your situation, see ASMOM’s Alaska child support guide. For legal issues beyond domestic violence, see Alaska legal help.
Custody and safety warning
Protective orders, custody orders, and divorce cases can overlap. Before you agree to exchanges, visits, mediation, or a parenting plan, ask an advocate or attorney how to raise safety concerns with the court.
Practical steps for single mothers
You may be trying to protect children, keep school stable, keep your job, care for a baby, hide your location, and deal with money at the same time. Pick the steps that fit your situation. Skip anything that is unsafe.
| Task | Why it matters | Ask for help from |
|---|---|---|
| School and daycare pickup lists | Staff need clear written instructions about who can pick up your child. | School office, daycare director, advocate. |
| Copies of court papers | Police, schools, housing offices, and child care may need to see them. | Court clerk, advocate, legal aid. |
| Benefits and documents | SNAP, Medicaid, WIC, TANF, and housing may ask for proof later. | DPA, WIC office, advocate, 211. |
| Phone and account safety | Location sharing, cloud accounts, and shared plans can expose where you are. | Advocate, hotline, trusted tech helper. |
| Work and transportation | Schedules, paychecks, and rides may need to change quickly. | Employer HR, advocate, 211. |
If you are pregnant, postpartum, breastfeeding, disabled, caring for a disabled child, or living far from a hub city, tell the advocate. You may need different supports. ASMOM has related Alaska guides for postpartum support, child care help, rural mothers, and special needs support.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Waiting until everything is organized. If you are unsafe, ask for help now and add documents later when possible.
- Using a monitored device. If you think your phone, email, vehicle, or social media is monitored, use a safer device to contact help.
- Assuming shelters only help residents. Many local programs also help with safety planning, court forms, advocacy, and referrals.
- Signing custody or housing papers alone. Ask an advocate or attorney before signing anything that affects safety, children, housing, or money.
- Missing follow-up calls. If you apply for benefits, court orders, housing, or VCCB, ask how they will contact you safely.
If you are denied, delayed, or overwhelmed
If one office says no, ask what other program might fit. If a shelter is full, ask about safe homes, hotel help, transportation, another community, or a waitlist. If a benefits application is delayed, ask whether you can submit missing papers later or speak with a supervisor. If you are afraid to go to court alone, ask an advocate about court accompaniment.
Keep notes with the date, office name, person you spoke with, and what they said. If it is safe, save copies or photos of papers, texts, bills, and notices. If it is not safe to keep records on your own device, ask an advocate about safer options.
Phone scripts you can use
Calling a local domestic violence program
“Hi, I am a mother in Alaska and I need help because my home is not safe. I have children with me. I need to know if you can help with shelter, safety planning, court protection, transportation, or a referral near my community.”
Calling the court clerk
“I need information about filing for a domestic violence protective order. I am not asking for legal advice. Can you tell me where the forms are, how to file, and whether there are options if I cannot safely come to the courthouse?”
Calling Alaska 211
“I am a single mother in Alaska and I need safe resources for food, rent, utilities, transportation, and child supplies. I may not be able to share my location freely. Can you search for confidential programs near my area?”
Calling VCCB
“I was harmed by a violent crime in Alaska and I have expenses. I do not know all costs yet. Can you explain how to start a claim, what documents help, and how to add bills later?”
Resumen en español
Si usted o sus hijos están en peligro inmediato en Alaska, llame al 911. Para ayuda confidencial sobre violencia doméstica, llame a la Línea Nacional al 800-799-7233 o mande START al 88788. Las madres Nativas de Alaska también pueden llamar o mandar texto a StrongHearts al 844-762-8483. Los programas locales pueden ayudar con refugio, planificación de seguridad, órdenes de protección, comida, vivienda, transporte y apoyo en la corte. Si necesita comida, renta, servicios públicos u otros recursos, llame al 2-1-1 o al 800-478-2221.
FAQ
Can I get domestic violence help in Alaska if I am not ready to leave?
Yes. Local advocacy programs can often talk with you about options, safety concerns, court forms, children, and local resources even if you are not ready to leave or stay in shelter.
Do I have to live in Anchorage to get help?
No. Alaska has programs in many regions, and some serve rural communities around hub towns. Use the ANDVSA map or state shelter directory to find the program for your area.
Can a protective order cover my children?
It may. Alaska courts say a judge may decide temporary custody and visitation when a long-term domestic violence protective order is granted. Ask the court or a legal advocate how to explain child safety concerns.
Can I apply for victim compensation if I do not know all my bills yet?
Yes. Alaska VCCB says submitting an application is the first step and that you can apply even if you do not yet know all expenses. More information may be requested later.
Where can I get food or rent help after leaving abuse?
Start with your local advocate and Alaska 211. You can also apply through Alaska Connect for public assistance programs such as SNAP, Medicaid, Temporary Assistance, Heating Assistance, and General Relief if you may qualify.
About this guide
This guide uses official federal, state, local, and other high-trust nonprofit and community sources mentioned in the article.
A Single Mother is independent and is not a government agency, benefits office, lender, law firm, medical provider, or tax advisor.
Program rules, funding, local availability, and eligibility can change. Always confirm details with the official program before you apply or make decisions.
Verification: Last verified May 20, 2026, next review August 20, 2026.
Corrections: If you see something wrong or outdated, email suggestions@asinglemother.org.
Disclaimer: This article is for general information only. It is not legal, financial, medical, tax, immigration, disability, safety, or government-agency advice.