Last updated: November 7, 2026
If you are in danger right now
Call 911 if you or your children are in immediate danger. If using your own phone or computer is not safe, use a safer device when you can, such as a trusted neighbor, clinic, shelter, school, library, or public office.
Internet and phone use can be monitored. If you are worried someone may see your browsing, use a safer device or call instead. The Hotline internet safety page has general privacy tips, but a local advocate can help you think through your own risk.
You can contact the National Hotline at 800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or use chat. Alaska Native mothers, family members, and friends can contact StrongHearts at 844-762-8483 by call, text, or chat. If sexual assault is part of what happened, the RAINN hotline is 800-656-4673.
If you are thinking about suicide, feel like you may hurt yourself, or need crisis counseling, call or text 988 Alaska. For local food, shelter, transportation, and basic needs referrals, call Alaska 211 by dialing 2-1-1 or 800-478-2221.
Hours matter: Alaska 211’s phone line lists Monday–Friday, 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m., with a noon–1 p.m. closure. For help with immediate danger, call 911, not 211. The National Domestic Violence Hotline and StrongHearts have 24/7 help. If it is unsafe to use your device, do not rely on private or incognito mode to hide activity.
Bottom line
Single mothers in Alaska can ask for domestic violence help through statewide crisis lines, local shelter and advocacy programs, Alaska courts, legal aid, victim compensation, housing referrals, public benefits, and community services. You do not need every document ready before asking for help. You also do not have to stay in a shelter to talk with an advocate.
Alaska’s Council on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault says victim service programs around Alaska provide safety planning and community-based advocacy. Most provide emergency shelter, and all provide services to rural communities in their service area. A person does not need to be a shelter resident to receive these services.
This guide is for general information only. It is not legal advice, safety advice, medical advice, or a promise that a program will accept your case. Domestic violence situations can change fast. A local advocate, attorney, court clerk, law enforcement officer, medical provider, or crisis line can help you talk through safer choices for your situation.
Where to start in Alaska
If you can safely make one call, start with the local domestic violence or sexual assault program closest to your area. Use the CDVSA resources page, the ANDVSA map, or the Alaska Department of Law shelter directory. If you are not sure which one fits, call any listed program and ask where to start.
If your main need is not shelter, you can still ask for help. Advocates may help with safety planning, protective order questions, court support, food, clothing, transportation, school changes, child safety concerns, housing referrals, and benefits paperwork.
If you need shelter
Call a local DV or sexual assault program. Ask about shelter, safe homes, hotel options, pets, children, and transportation.
If you need court help
Start with the Alaska court page. Ask an advocate or clerk about forms, filing, and hearing steps.
If you need basic needs
Call Alaska 211 and ask for food, rent, utilities, phones, rides, diapers, and local emergency resources.
If housing is unsafe
Ask an advocate about emergency shelter, housing referrals, VAWA housing protections, and AHFC options.
For a broader first step beyond this page, ASMOM also has a national guide to domestic violence help and a state guide for Alaska emergency help.
Quick contacts for Alaska survivors
| Need | Start here | What to ask |
|---|---|---|
| Immediate danger | 911 | Ask for police, fire, or medical help now. |
| Domestic violence | 800-799-7233 | Ask for safety planning and local referrals. |
| Alaska Native support | 844-762-8483 | Ask for culturally grounded support and referrals. |
| Sexual assault | 800-656-4673 | Ask for a sexual assault advocate and options. |
| Mental health crisis | 988 | Call or text for crisis counseling. |
| Food, rent, utilities | 2-1-1 or 800-478-2221 | Ask for local help near your community. |
Local domestic violence programs in Alaska
Alaska has large distances, weather barriers, small communities, and many rural areas. Help may look different depending on where you live. Some programs operate shelters. Some may use safe homes, hotel rooms, village advocates, phone advocacy, or transport help.
Use statewide directories as the most current starting point. Program names, phone numbers, shelter space, and service areas can change. Call first if it is safe.
| Area | Program examples | How they may help |
|---|---|---|
| Anchorage | AWAIC, STAR, Victims for Justice | DV shelter, sexual assault advocacy, court support, victim support. |
| Fairbanks and Interior | Interior Alaska Center for Non-Violent Living | Shelter, crisis support, advocacy, rural outreach, children’s services. |
| Juneau and Southeast | AWARE and regional programs | Shelter, advocacy, legal referrals, support groups, court help. |
| Bethel and Y-K Delta | Tundra Women’s Coalition | Shelter, crisis line, rural outreach, children’s services. |
| Kenai, Homer, Kodiak, Sitka | Local DV/SA agencies | Safe housing, advocacy, legal referrals, support groups. |
| Nome, Kotzebue, Utqiagvik | Regional victim programs | Crisis support, village outreach, safe homes, referral help. |
Tip for rural mothers
When you call, say your community name, whether children are with you, whether you can travel safely, and whether weather, flights, ferry access, or road conditions are barriers. Ask if the program can help by phone, through a village advocate, or with a nearby hub community.
Protective orders in Alaska
Alaska courts have civil protective orders for domestic violence, stalking, and sexual assault. The right form depends on what happened and your relationship to the other person. The court page has forms, videos, language resources, and instructions.
How long orders last: A law enforcement officer may ask a judge for an emergency order that lasts up to 72 hours, with the victim’s consent. A judge may grant a short-term ex parte order (without first hearing from the other party) for up to 20 days. A long-term order can last one year after notice and a hearing. Extensions may be possible. These are different paths; you do not need to wait for a police officer to request a regular protective order.
The Alaska Court System says a judge may decide temporary custody and visitation if you have children with the other party in a domestic violence protective order case and a long-term order is granted. The judge may also order child support in that protective order case.
If it is safe to use an online tool, the Alaska Court System’s protective order wizard can help prepare a petition. Completing the wizard does not itself give you a court order or automatically file your papers. Follow the wizard’s filing steps or ask the clerk about electronic filing through TrueFiling. Paper forms are available too. For a domestic violence order, the court lists petition DV-100 for one petitioner or DV-100M for multiple petitioners, such as a parent and children, plus the confidential law enforcement information sheet DV-127. For a stalking or sexual assault order, different petition forms are used. An advocate or court clerk can help you find the right set.
| Question | What to know | Practical step |
|---|---|---|
| Do I need a lawyer? | No lawyer is required to ask for a protective order. | Ask an advocate, court clerk, or legal aid office if you can. |
| Can children be included? | The court may address temporary custody and visitation. | Write down school, daycare, pickup, and exchange concerns. |
| What if I cannot travel? | Rural filing options may depend on your court and safety needs. | Call an advocate and explain travel limits. |
| What if it is violated? | Violations can be serious and may involve police or court action. | Call 911 if you are in danger. |
The Alaska Department of Public Safety victim booklet says a person who believes law enforcement protection is needed may ask an officer for help with safety, including an emergency protective order. It also says an officer may help with essential personal belongings and getting to a safe place. Read the DPS victim booklet if it is safe to open a PDF.
Children and court orders: A protective order may include temporary custody, visitation, or child support. But it is not always a lasting custody plan. When the protective order ends, its custody terms end unless another custody order is in place. Ask legal aid about filing a separate custody case before the order ends, if needed. If you have an order from another state or a Tribal Court, the Alaska Court System explains how to register it. This section gives general court information, not legal advice.
Shelter, housing, and lease safety
Emergency shelter is often the fastest housing path if you cannot safely stay where you are. A local advocate can help you think through children, pets, medicine, documents, school pickup, transportation, privacy, and whether a shelter, safe home, hotel, friend’s home, or other option is safer.
For longer-term housing, Alaska Housing Finance Corporation (AHFC) runs the Empowering Choice Housing Program for some households displaced by domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, or stalking. You must seek a referral from an approved victim service agency and complete AHFC’s application. AHFC encourages households at or below 50% of their local area median income to apply; other housing eligibility rules also apply.
AHFC’s referral agencies can help you start. Voucher help is listed for Anchorage, Fairbanks, Homer, Juneau, Ketchikan, Kodiak, Sitka, Soldotna, Valdez, Mat-Su Borough, and Wrangell. For Bethel, Cordova, and Nome, AHFC instead lists priority placement on public-housing waiting lists. Ask the local program what is available now. A referral, application, or place on a waitlist is not a promise of a home or voucher.
Housing reality check
Shelter beds, vouchers, public housing, and rent help can be limited. Ask what to do if the first option is full, if you have pets, if you need transport, or if you must keep your location private.
For broader housing steps, use ASMOM’s Alaska housing help guide. If utilities, heat, or phone service are part of the crisis, see Alaska utility help and phone or internet help.
Leaving a lease: Do not assume you can stop paying rent or end a lease without notice. Ask an advocate or Alaska legal aid how your lease, any protective order, housing program rules, and federal VAWA protections may affect your choices. Keep your safe contact details private and ask the housing office how it protects them.
Money, food, health care, and basic needs
Leaving abuse can create urgent costs for food, gas, phone minutes, diapers, medicine, child care, locks, documents, and rent. Start with local advocates and public programs. Do not assume you are ineligible because you are working, staying with someone else, missing papers, or not ready to file a police report. Rules vary by program.
Crime victim compensation
The Alaska Violent Crimes Compensation Board (VCCB) may help eligible people with crime-related costs. Its eligibility page says a claim must relate to an eligible violent crime, with qualifying losses. In general, report the crime to law enforcement within five days, or as soon as you reasonably can, and file a VCCB application within two years of the crime. Exceptions can apply, including in some delayed-reporting and child-victim situations. If you missed a deadline, ask VCCB whether an exception applies instead of assuming you cannot apply. A civil protective order alone does not prove VCCB eligibility, and a criminal conviction is not required.
VCCB lists possible help for medical and dental costs, counseling, lost wages, relocation, security, travel related to the crime, and certain other crime-related expenses. It does not generally take over ongoing living bills such as regular rent and utilities. Use the VCCB application page or the official application portal to start a claim, even if you do not know every bill yet. Save receipts when safe; VCCB may ask for police, medical, or insurance records. For application help, call 907-465-3040 or 800-764-3040. Awards and payment dates are not guaranteed.
Food, cash, Medicaid, WIC, and heat
The Alaska Division of Public Assistance (DPA) runs benefits that may help after abuse, including SNAP food aid, Alaska Temporary Assistance (cash support), and some medical and child care programs. Compare them on DPA services and use Alaska Connect where available to apply, renew, upload papers, or report a change. DPA also lists ways to apply without the portal and a contact number, 800-478-7778. For some income-based Medicaid applications, DPA directs people to HealthCare.gov. Ask a worker how to keep mail and account notices private when needed.
ASMOM has state guides for Alaska SNAP, Alaska TANF, Alaska WIC, Alaska healthcare, and Alaska child care.
Local basic needs
For food, clothing, transportation, furniture, school items, diapers, and family support, ask your advocate and Alaska 211. ASMOM’s Alaska community help and baby gear help guides can also help you plan next calls.
Legal help for protection, custody, housing, and immigration issues
Domestic violence can affect custody, divorce, child support, housing, immigration, employment, benefits, debt, and criminal victim rights. Try not to rely only on advice from friends, social media, or the other parent. Use local advocates and qualified legal help when you can.
CDVSA lists CDVSA legal services for victims, including legal advocacy support and statewide legal resources. Alaska Legal Services Corporation says it is the state’s largest provider of free civil legal services for domestic violence victims. Start with ALSC domestic violence if you need civil legal help and meet intake rules.
The Office of Victims’ Rights provides free legal services to crime victims for rights connected to police, prosecutors, judges, and other criminal justice agencies. If family court, custody, or child support is part of your situation, also see ASMOM’s Alaska legal help, Alaska child support, and national family safety law guides.
Custody and safety warning
Protective orders, custody orders, divorce cases, and criminal cases can overlap. Before you agree to exchanges, visits, mediation, or a parenting plan, ask an advocate or attorney how to raise safety concerns with the court.
Practical steps for single mothers
You may be trying to protect children, keep school stable, keep your job, care for a baby, hide your location, and handle money all at once. Pick the steps that fit your situation. Skip anything that is unsafe.
Documents to gather only if safe: ID; your child’s basic details; any court order or case number; lease or bill; income or benefit notice; and, for VCCB, crime-related bills, receipts, or report details. You can ask for safety help before gathering papers. Do not return to an unsafe home to collect them.
| Task | Why it matters | Ask for help from |
|---|---|---|
| School and daycare pickup lists | Staff need clear directions about who may pick up your child. | School office, daycare director, advocate. |
| Copies of court papers | Police, schools, housing offices, and child care may need them. | Court clerk, advocate, legal aid. |
| Benefits and documents | SNAP, Medicaid, WIC, TANF, and housing may ask for proof. | DPA, WIC office, advocate, 211. |
| Phone and account safety | Shared plans, apps, and passwords can expose your location. | Advocate, hotline, trusted tech helper. |
| Work and transportation | Schedules, paychecks, and rides may need to change quickly. | Employer HR, advocate, 211. |
If you are pregnant, postpartum, breastfeeding, disabled, caring for a disabled child, or living far from a hub city, tell the advocate. You may need different supports. Pregnancy and newborn, disability and special-needs, and transportation help guides may also be useful.
If you are applying for several programs at once, use ASMOM’s documents checklist. If a benefit, housing referral, or agency request is denied or delayed, use the denied benefits guide to organize your next call.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Waiting until everything is organized. If you are unsafe, ask for help now and add documents later when possible.
- Using a monitored device. If your phone, email, car, or social media may be monitored, use a safer device to contact help.
- Assuming shelters only help residents. Many programs also help with safety planning, court forms, advocacy, and referrals.
- Signing papers alone. Ask an advocate or attorney before signing anything that affects safety, children, housing, or money.
- Missing safe contact details. If you apply for benefits, housing, court orders, or VCCB, ask how the office can contact you safely.
If you are denied, delayed, or overwhelmed
If one office says no, ask what other program might fit. If a shelter is full, ask about safe homes, hotel help, transportation, another community, or a waitlist. If benefits are delayed, ask what proof is missing and how to send it. If you are afraid to go to court alone, ask an advocate about court accompaniment.
Ask for a written decision and next step: If a court denies an order, ask the clerk about any way to file again or seek other legal help. If AHFC or a benefit office denies an application, read the written notice for the appeal or hearing deadline and ask legal aid before time runs out. If VCCB denies a claim, ask how to request reconsideration and, if needed, an appeal. Each program has different rules; do not rely on one deadline for all cases.
Keep notes with the date, office name, person you spoke with, and what they said. If it is safe, save copies or photos of papers, texts, bills, and notices. If it is not safe to keep records on your own device, ask an advocate about safer options.
Phone scripts you can use
Calling a local program
“Hi, I am a mother in Alaska and my home is not safe. I have children with me. I need to ask about shelter, safety planning, court protection, transportation, or a referral near my community.”
Calling the court clerk
“I need information about filing for a domestic violence protective order. I am not asking for legal advice. Can you tell me where the forms are, how to file, and what options exist if I cannot safely come to the courthouse?”
Calling Alaska 211
“I am a single mother in Alaska and need safe resources for food, rent, utilities, transportation, and child supplies. I may not be able to share my location freely. Can you search for confidential programs near my area?”
Calling VCCB
“I was harmed by a violent crime in Alaska and have expenses. I do not know all costs yet. Can you explain how to start a claim, what documents help, and how to add bills later?”
Resumen en español
Si usted o sus hijos están en peligro inmediato en Alaska, llame al 911. Para ayuda confidencial sobre violencia doméstica, llame a la Línea Nacional al 800-799-7233 o mande START al 88788. Las madres Nativas de Alaska también pueden llamar o mandar texto a StrongHearts al 844-762-8483.
Los programas locales pueden ayudar con refugio, planificación de seguridad, órdenes de protección, comida, vivienda, transporte y apoyo en la corte. Si necesita comida, renta, servicios públicos u otros recursos, llame al 2-1-1 o al 800-478-2221.
FAQ
Can I get domestic violence help in Alaska if I am not ready to leave?
Yes. Local advocacy programs can often talk with you about options, safety concerns, court forms, children, and local resources even if you are not ready to leave or stay in shelter.
Do I have to live in Anchorage to get help?
No. Alaska has programs in many regions, and CDVSA says all victim service programs provide services to rural communities in their service area. Use the ANDVSA map or state shelter directory to find the program for your area.
Can a protective order cover my children?
It may. Alaska courts say a judge may decide temporary custody and visitation when a long-term domestic violence protective order is granted. Ask the court or a legal advocate how to explain child safety concerns.
Can I apply for victim compensation if I do not know all my bills yet?
Yes. Alaska VCCB says you can apply even if you do not yet know all your expenses, and more information can be added later. Eligibility and payment are not guaranteed.
Where can I get food or rent help after leaving abuse?
Start with your local advocate and Alaska 211. You can also use Alaska Connect to apply for public assistance programs if you may qualify.
What if my phone or computer is being watched?
Use a safer device if you can, such as a trusted person’s phone, a library computer, or a public office phone. You can also call 911 in immediate danger or ask a hotline or local advocate about safer contact options.
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About this guide
This guide uses official federal, state, local, and other high-trust nonprofit and community sources mentioned in the article.
A Single Mother is independent and is not a government agency, benefits office, lender, law firm, medical provider, or tax advisor.
Program rules, funding, local availability, and eligibility can change. Always confirm details with the official program before you apply or make decisions.
Verification: Last verified November 7, 2026, next review February 5, 2027.
Corrections: If you see something wrong or outdated, email suggestions@asinglemother.org.
Disclaimer: This article is for general information only. It is not legal, financial, medical, tax, immigration, disability, safety, or government-agency advice.
Last updated: November 7, 2026 Next review: February 5, 2027